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Kickass
Husband
Winning at Life, Marriage, and Sex
Postcard Book
Postcards for a Kickass Couple provides practical strategies and can be used as a communication tool for both men and women to help renew their commitment, learn how to communicate more effectively and resolve the conflict that are solvable, and accept the ones that are not, so that any couple can become a kickass couple.
You CAN level-up your marriage.
Kickass Husband shows you exactly how to do it.
Remember when your relationship just worked...?
There was once a time when your relationship was thriving, exciting… where it gave you more than it took, where it felt easy and simple. But after that honeymoon phase, it’s all too easy to fall into the slow fade to complacency, apathy, and just “getting by.”
Deep down, you know life is too short to not love the one you’re with; too short not to be in a relationship that’s positive, affirming, and fun. But searching for the how-to is exhausting and frustrating, and it can leave you worried you’re going to miss the target or screw everything up.
If only marriage came with a manual…
The Guidebook You've Been Looking For
Kickass Husband is exactly that: a handbook for imperfect husbands who want to invest in and fortify their #1 relationship.
Each chapter is relatable, succinct, and easily digestible, giving you tactics you can immediately begin using in your own relationship.
With anecdotes from Matthew’s marriage, as well as analyses from Certified Gottman Marriage Therapist Chris Cambas, you’ll be equipped with the tools, strategies, and real-life examples you need to lean in to your #1 relationship and take it from floundering to flourishing.
Apply the lessons in Kickass Husband to feel...
Excited!
Rediscover a sense of hope and excitement as you begin cultivating the incredible relationship you’ve always dreamed of.
Fulfilled!
Actively invest in your marriage and give you and your spouse the gift of increased satisfaction, intimacy, and fulfillment.
Happy!
Watch your relationship success spill over into your health, finances, and business, and grow your overall happiness in every area of life.
What they've said about us
Hear real stories from others who've experienced change.
“What I appreciated was Matthew's authenticity, and ability to share an easy to follow roadmap on becoming a Kick Ass Husband. Gabriela and I have been married for 20 years, and there is no doubt in my mind that Matthew's concepts, and impact on my mindset has helped me improve my marriage dramatically. THANK YOU MATTHEW!”
“I am always looking for ways to invest in my relationship with my wife, "Kickass Husband" has been an outstanding tool to help provide practical exercises in our relationship. Taking initiative in our relationship has been a game changer for helping me deposit into my wife’s emotional bank account.”
“I absolutely loved Mathews perspective on ‘adopting’ your souse’s parents as your own. This chapter especially resonated with me as my husband and I rely quite heavily on our in-laws to help with our two young children. It’s a great reminder to not only pour into your spouse, but also the ones who helped raise them into the person you fell in love with! This book has been such a great tool for my husband and I to ensure we continue always working towards a thriving marriage!”
“Where were you guys 30 years ago?! Matthew is right on point as learning and implementing your spouse’s love language is vital. After 50 years of marriage, it really hits home to learn the ingredients we can put into practice today to recapture those earlier years of Thriving”
What is your marriage worth?
Do you remember the best, most fulfilling year of your marriage? What if that was every year? What benefits would a healthy, thriving relationship bring to your career and other relationships?
The way I see it, you have 3 choices:
Go back to “maintaining” your relationship (sure, you might avoid fighting, but you and your partner will never quite thrive the way you deserve to).
Continue on a downhill spiral until you and your spouse eventually separate.
Actively work on creating the type of relationship you desire.
It is impossible to put a price tag on happiness and fulfillment, but every one of us deserves it and can experience it now.
You can rebuild your relationship on your own...but you don't have to
Yes, you can assimilate all of this information from dozens of different relationship books. You can try to find a common language with your spouse, and constantly struggle to be on the same page. You can go through countless hours of counseling (and some might actually be needed).
Or, you can use the detailed, consistent framework in Kickass Husband to help you both navigate the journey of strengthening your relationship.
You don’t need to reinvent the wheel. Give yourself the tools and tactics you need to level-up, together.
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Matthew P. Hoffman
Co-Author, Chris Cambas
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